Roger Abrahams, "Negotiating Respect: Patterns of Presentation
Among Black Women" (1975)
Discussion Questions:
- Describe the approach and organization of this essay.
73:
- Explain the opening sentence. What assumption(s) about the
authors of hero tales does Abraham present?
- Where, according to Abrahams, can information about the
"sex-specific expressive capacities of women" (73) be found?
- What does Abrahams mean by "presentational strategies and
styles" (73)?
- What is "role theory"? "common-sense social structure"?
"symbolic interactionists"?
74:
- What, according to Abrahams, is the difference
between presentation and performance?
- What, according to Abrahams is a rap
(or "acting a line")?
- What, according to
Abrahams, is face?
75:
- What, according to
Abrahams, is the difference between
filling and playing a role?
78:
- Where, according to Abrahams, is
"the essence of the negotiation involved in asserting
one's role" found for Black women?
79:
- Explain: Respectability "is an ideal-image that is
conceived and put into action through a complex enactment
of motives" (79). (See also 82).
- What, according to
Abrahams, is the difference between how European
Americans and African Americans handle opposition?
80:
- Explain Hegel's concept of aufheben.
How,
according to Abrahams, is this concept exemplified
by African Americans?
81:
- How does Abrahams define "doing your thing"
in the African American community?
82:
- What,
according to Abrahams, is the difference between
being respectable and being "uppity"?
83:
- How,
according to Abrahams, do both Black men and Black
women perpetuate the belief that Black men are
untrustworthy?
- Explain: "just as men evince their badness
in order to enhance their reputation, women will
define the strength and force of their
respectability by successfully contending against
such men" (83).
- Where,
according to Abrahams, is the "locus of
responsibility" (83)?
84:
- Explain: "it is in the inevitable
confrontation between these worlds [home and street]
that a female is able to enact being a woman" (84).
85:
- Explain: "It is not this distinction of
worlds that is distinctively black, ... but the
types and styles carried on within and between the
denizens of the two domains" (85).
87:
- Explain: "Being a mother does not make one a
Momma" (87).
88:
- Explain: "One of the routines of
respectability involves monitoring others'
presentational techniques" (88).
89:
- In what ways,
according to Abrahams, are "words
between adults and children extremely
restricted" (89)?
- How does this dynamic
involve the emulation of the maternal
figure?
90:
- In what ways,
according to Abrahams, are children "encouraged from
the earliest age to be aggressive, even hostile to
Momma" (90)?
91:
- Why,
according to Abrahams, is it true that "among blacks
action (and talk) is constantly being judged, and
generally from the perspective of respectability
values" (91)?
92:
- Why,
according to Abrahams, is giving money "one
important way a man shows his respect for a woman"
(92)?
93:
- Describe the two types of ways,
according to Ladner, that "maturing girls operate in
male-female situations" (93).
97:
- What,
according to Abrahams, does signifying
involve?
98:
- How, according
to Abrahams, is "talking smart" the female
equivalent of "talking shit" (98)?
99:
- What,
according to Abrahams, is the difference between
gossiping and bad-mouthing?
100:
- How,
according to Abrahams, can means of defense against
gossip "propose alternative interpretations of what
is meant by behaving respectably" (100)?
101:
- How does Abrahams define respect here?